Question Posted Thursday February 25 2010, 10:35 pm
19/female. First year in college.
I like this guy, he recently turned 18, and he is a senior in high school. He is bascially the star of the school with sports - especially hockey. Well my cousin plays on the same team as him and so me and my friend are going to watch him saturday, and after that my old school plays so we are going to stay for that. I'm just worried it may be awkward because this guys ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 years, is going to be there. I've met her a few times when they were dating, but I just don't know how to act if he is with her after their game, and stays for the second game. I haven't talked to him in about two weeks, and haven't seen him in about a month. I'm sooo shy around him, and he is not. He is a popular guy, hes funny and all the girls just stare at him because they think he is adorable.
What should I do if he is with his ex girlfriend and his friends and her friends who I do not like? Most likely, he won't come up to me if he is with her which would be even more awkward. Ughhh awkward situations..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DearSusie answered Sunday February 28 2010, 9:05 am: Take the football game scenario lightly. No actual relationship progress can be made in a group of people. You need to brainstorm with friends, kind of a a "find a way, make a way" to be near him in a more close/ private situation. No, don't stalk him, but if he volunteers or often shops at xyz store or works at xyz store, bump into him casually and make it look like you arent REALLY interested. Boys like a challenge, a sure thing is no fun. Half the fun is the chase, be something he wants to know more about. Be friendly and potentially available, not all over him. Good luck and let me know how it happens.
heyitsemxox answered Thursday February 25 2010, 11:40 pm: yeah i know what you mean, that could be an awkward situation but only if you make it awkward. just act yourself, dont be all over him, but talk to him. And his ex is his ex, they broke up for a reason so i wouldnt worry to much about her. Just try to make conversation, talk about the game, or school,sports,
dont worry about it too much im sure you will have a great time(: [ heyitsemxox's advice column | Ask heyitsemxox A Question ]
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