well i am falling for this guy, and spend alot of time at his house,and im worried that we might lose contol one night and i don't want to end up pregnant. but how do i tell my mom i want to be on birth control and still be able to see him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LM answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 9:15 pm: Depends on how close you are with your mom.
One of your options is to tell her you want to be protected in the future and for anything that could happen. Another option is to ask her if you can go on the pill for other reasons, such as regulating your cycle, lessening the severity of acne, et cetera. Your last option would be to get it from a clinic in your area, but you probably wouldn't be able to use your parents' insurance (if they have it) if you chose that option.
Anyway, until you're on the pill (and even afterwards, ideally, because no method of birth control is 100% foolproof) you should have condoms on hand. You can buy them anywhere and there's no age limit. Use a self-checkout if you're really self-conscious about it. Know how to use them and have one with you whenever there's a possbility of the two of you having sex. That way, there's no excuse not to use protection.
Hope I helped. Inbox me if you need more assistance :)
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