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boys?drama? do i need to say more??
15/female
I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now, and we have a great relatesionship. We don't fight or get mad at each other, but now he is in the drama with my best friend and I. She is telling him that I am a whore and "I asked to be raped" ( I was raped a year ago by my mothers boyfriend and I told my boyfriend this) she is just trash talking me and being a b*tch. So now he is involed with our drama, we are fighting now. I asked him if he believed what she was telling him and he didn't look me in the eye and all he said was "it wasnt that hard to fugure out" Thats all he said and I am not sure if i want to break up with him or just talk to him about it before I do anything rash. I love and care about him but he hurt me and I dont' know what to do. I don't want to loose a great relatsionship over this.
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I agree with sunshine. But hey, if that doesn't work. It's your boy's fault. If he beleivs your best friend over you then he's making a mistake! Especially if it truly isn't true that you "asked to be raped" that seems a bit impossible rather than beleivable.
If he can't accept what happens in your life, and definitely does not defend you when your BEST FRIEND is talking bad about you... then he really isn't being fair.
But do try talking to him (:
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Try and talk to him about it..it's worth a shot instead of breaking up with him so quickly tell your
boyfriend he shouldn't believe everything he hears &
say your best friend is just trying to cause drama and trouble say that you aren't a whore and that you
didn't ask to be raped it just happened make him believe your telling the truth and not your best friend say since he's your boyfriend you'd like it if he believed you do what you think is right if you truely don't want to loose the relationship then your best option would be to get the situation straightened out and talk to your boyfriend(:
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