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Should i say text him soon cause he never texts first?
Heyy!
i'm a freshman in high school and since my school is really small, the senior boys date some of the freshman girls. So when i found out that this guy nick was intrested in me i was speachless because it was way to good to even believe cause he's the football captain of the varsity team, and best looking in the school. He was a senior gym leader for my friend sarah and he asked her for my number. ever since that we started talking he came over a couple of times, worked out together, and went to see movies. but last weekend, i invited him over to relax and watch a movie and he was saying that it sounded good cause he was still working and was going to come over after work. SO an hour later he says to just tell my parents that he's taking me out for ice cream. (he really wasn't)but i agreed. Anyway when i got in his car i questioned him why he changed plans and he said he had to pick up a couple of friends at a party so he only had half hour. After we were done hanging out he texted me back "i miss you already!" we stayed talking for an hour then my last text sent to him was "that's too bad im not going to be in town for valentines day" and he never texted me back afterwards. The next week he was dancing with the girls dance team for the school pep rally and looked up and smiled at me during the dance mabe about 5 times. but it just bothered me that he was dancing with another girl. I seriously don't even know if i should just forget about him and move on or what? cause it honestly looks like i'm a booty call? Could you mabe give me some advice?
Thankyouu!
-mandy
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Well, there are ways to tell if you're just a 'booty call' or someone he is sincerely interested in. (I hope you're not having sex just yet though! hah hold off a bit with that!)
When a guy sees a girl as a fling/booty call, there are signs. He won't talk about personal issues, he won't introduce you to his friends/family, he won't want to meet your family, he'll call every once in awhile out of nowhere instead of everyday or every other day, ad he won't be interested in what you have to say - for example, he won't ask about your family/friends, he won't want to hear stories about your life, he just won't seem interested in your personal life and he'll just be very nonchalant.
I would think about all this.. do you think you're overreacting? From reading what you wrote, and as an outside person looking in, it seems like this guy likes you.. but just doesn't want to move it so fast. So keep is casual and relax. Guys like to feel a girl out (figuratively) and see how she reacts to situations.. they like to see if a girl is psycho-stalkerish, if a girl gets jealous easily, if she gets along with his group, etc. The text msg thing is not a big deal, guys never know how to respond! If you want to text him, then do it.. but in a casual way, cute way. I know I'm writing alot, but I just want you to understand what I'm trying to explain... The bottom line is, it seems like he's interested. Just take it easy and don't get stressed over the small stuff! Let things flow and it'll work out.
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