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How to solve being too clingy
I read that you wrote once, "I used to have that problem and my boyfriend broke up with me over that.. because he thought he was a disappointment when he couldn't see me. Don't get upset.. look forward to the day you see each other. Give him some space or if you are too clingy, he might get annoyed. So do your own thing.. like rent some movies, play a game or read. Plan a date for you and him, something special and it will be worth it. This worked for me. The longer you don't see each other.. the more he would miss you and then he would be the one trying to hang out with you."
Did it work? We have a date planned for saturday just me and him, to have alone time. I've already backed away and given him bro time, and scaled my text messages. I just wish I didn't feel so stupid that I actually have to monitor myself over this. Any tips?
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It worked back then when I was still dating that guy. Eventually it just turned into a habit and I didn't come off as clingy into my next relationship
I think what you are doing right now is great. Keep yourself somewhat occupied and have a life outside the relationship. The longer you date someone these things sort of fall into place without having to think too much into your actions.
Clingy just gets bad when you call over 5 times when you know they are out watching a movie or something. That sort of thing.
Hanging out with your own friends is a good sign. It's pretty common for couples to stop doing that. Works for some, doesn't for others.
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