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is he using me ?
ok so i havent seen this guyfor a long time and i saw him bout a month ago and we started texting, he started calling me hun and babe and i started liking him and he started liking mee too . so we hung out and it went really good and i met his parents and some of his friends , after we hung out we kissed and the next day we hung out and like the 3rd time we hung out i knew he wanted to finger me but he didnt and so after we hung out he asked me if i wanted him to and i said i would feel more comfortable if we were dating and hes like yaa thats understandable them. then a couple days later he said that this girl that we both know told him that he is wat too good for me and that hes a man of action and i wont give it him, and i asked him if hes gunna listen to her and hes like no i like you and he also said he doesnt care if he gets action because he likes me for me . so then yesterday we hung out and he sorta tried to finger me but i sorta pulled away .. and he got the picture .... but we had fun and he seemed really happy , so then i had to go to work so this morning i texted him and he was just saying one word answers which is really not like him . so then he appoligized for trying to finger me and i said 'its fine but like i said before i would be more comfortable if we were dating and i want to make sure that im not some girl you can take advantage of and call up whenever you want action'and hes like ya thaat makes sence and i was like so ar you using me or not and hes like nope =P and that isnt really a convincing answer...and so i was like do you wanna hang out tonight and he said suure =P ...... like what should i think bout this situation? do you think he actually likes me or is using me ? and what should i think bout what he said today ?
thanks
kaitlyn
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As much as my hatred for guys are, I'm not entirely convinced hes using you. My advice would be to keep holding your ground and DO NOT give in if you don't want too. The longer you hold out, and the longer he stays around, theres more of a chance he might be the real deal. But at the same time, guys do like the chase and getting to sleep with you may be his goal. Just feel the situation out. With a little more time you should be able to figure out his real intentions. Just don't ever do something you dont want to do!
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Look...Guys don't always admit it but they think about sex all the time. I'm not saying do stuff you don't want to do but I think all he wants is sex and is just trying to be nice about the fact that you aren't ready. Find someone who completely respects you
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