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girl. he still hasnt talked to me.
im going crazy. but im honestly doing sooo much better then i thought i would be doing.
im extremly happy lately but something just missing and im trying to not let it bother me and im trying to not think about him but its hard :/
ive been talking to this one guy for awhile just as friends i finally met him yesterday. i got sooooooo lost going there and i had to call him a million times and his friend was really nice to tell me where to go haha and we met up at a pool hall where he was and his friend and his friends gf. it was funn. he taught me how to play pool and stuff and when i was leaving he walked me to my car and he gave me a really good, big hug and i liked it. he said it was really nice to finally meet me and stuff. since i got lost going there he texted me awhile after i left and asked me if i got home safe and stuff and i said yeah and hes like good and we texted the whole night and he told me that hes horny and stuff and that i should send him pictures haha but i told him knoww. and he asked me what i thought of him and stuff and he asked me what i would do with him and i said anything really. and hes like ok well im just letting you know im not looking for a relationship. and im like alrighttt? btw hes 21 with a baby and im 17. i know thats kinda a big age difference and plus he has a kid :/ but i feel like im going down the road of trouble. do you think hes just using me to have sex?
girl youre my hero btw haha. you keeep me sain!
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he still hasnt ? well dont give up.. thursday will come soon enough and then you can talk to him yourself. dont bet on hi talking to you first, because if he's stubborn, then obviously hes not going to back down until you do. yuh know ? and i know how hard it is to not think about someone.. the more you tell yourself NOT to think about him, the more you do. its so frustrating, but you have to keep yourself busy. you're doing good though, most people wouldnt be as positive as you are being right now, and thats totally awesome. like im not gonna lie to you, im gonna be straight up.. you're doing GREAT under the circumstances, so just keep it up, that little thing that's missing wont be gone for long. i promise you wont feel empty for long.
and since im an honest person, im going to tell you right now that i think youre most definitley right.. youre going down the road of trouble. from what youve told me, i can tell that he is not someone that is going to stick around.. and even he said it himself, hes not looking for a relationship and he most definitley doesnt want one. and when he asked you for pictures, immediatley after you boht met eachother.. thats the number one warning sign. [and good for you for not giving him the pictures. that gets around. and you dont know how many people he would send it to and how many people they would send it to.. yuh know ? i have so much respect for you for deciding to make a good decision :)] and another BIG warning sign was when he said, "what would you do with me?" like.. you have to remember, you might have been talking to him before this as friends but now that youve actually met, THE FIRST DAY, hes going to think youre easy and willing to do whatever. you're not just a hook up, you know that youre better than that, you deserve more. this guy knocked up another girl, probably because he was being careless, and is now wanting to have sex with you.. plus its illegal because youre 17 and hes 21, even though, to me, age is just a number.. unless youre like 10 and 21 hahaa, i hope you get what im saying. and i know you might not want to hear it, but im gonna tell you anyways because i do care about what happens to you.. this guy definetly is just using you for sex. first hes nice to you and charming.. then he goes in for the kill, thinking that he swept you off your feet enough to get you in his bed. typical scenario.. pretty classic. if i were you, i would just keep it friends with him.. or nothing at all, because we both know youre worth more. its obvious.
if youre worried about finding a guy.. you will, but youll find someone thats worth your time and not just here for a one night stand. yuh know ? and who knows what will happen with your ex.. your future is YOUR future and i cant tell you what to do.. but i can tell you what i think will help you when it comes to your future.
and aww, hahaa. im glad. i just try to help. i can tell youre really chill and just keep being you.. and listen to your instinct, you cant lose if you listen to your heart.
im always here if you need me :] [duh] keep me postedd, i really hope things work out the way you want them to ! good luck ! hope i helped girl. and dont sweat it, whats meant to be will be. xxo.
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