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Major issues going on in my life right now.. I need lots of advice!
I was wondering if I could talk to some of you guys on the phone about it.
Its just.. my life this school year has taken a disastrous turn. I used to do well in school.. I wanted to get good grades this year so I could get into honors subjects next year. I still do. But there have also just been issues that have kind of been there before.. that just seem worse. I'm not suicidal or anything.. I just need some guidance.. I'm afraid to talk about my issues to so-called friends, and my family members.. they'll be too disappointed.. they still think everything is fine in my life when it is not. maybe I'm a good hider. But its really been taking a toll on me mentally and physically. I don't love myself right now.. something I could say before. I just am frustrated about how I just keep repeating history.. I feel very overwhelmed. There's so much.. I feel like I could solve it in one day.. every day I'm like "i'll fix it today! i'll fix it today!" even on vacations. what happened? nothing. ughghghgh.
I used to try and type out all my issues into questions here but its just overwhelming to read such long paragraphs for people, so I thought communicating through phone would be better. I'd be able to give more information and I'd get better advice.
So I'm looking for people (or someone) who are (or is) willing to give time.. maybe like half an hour to an hour, preferably this week, to talk with me. I'm a 16 year old girl.. I'm looking to talk with another girl my age or older. In fact if you are a guidance counselor it would be so much better, but even ordinary people with good advice can help as well. Im better at giving advice than implementing it on myself.. but its always better from a different perspective. And I'd ask my guidance counselor but I just feel ashamed.. I feel like I've let down everyone who knows I can be so much better. I couldn't bear to show her there's more to it.. especially because of other things going on. (I'll explain on the phone)
Some of my issues include major procrastination (I have work that was due in the 1st marking period, and the 3rd marking period of school is about to start! I'm so bad at sticking to schedules and staying organized. Its really making me stressed out and is the root of a lot of my issues.), trouble making friends and keeping them, binge eating, anxiety (I think I'm a hypochondriac), my complicated home life, love life (which is nonexistent), and not living my life to the fullest.
If you can even help with 1 of them I'll be grateful. Please leave an answer if you are willing to do this, and then email me at vballchick08x@gmail.com with your user name, so we could exchange numbers and set up a time to talk.
I really have no close friends right now or anything.. I feel like.. I need to express my thoughts.. all my thoughts are accumulating, which is never a good thing. I cant talk to people I know because they'll judge me for it and everything. I mean I try to talk with my parents about it but they just do not help. they just make me feel worse, which perpetuates my procrastination and binge eating, among other things.
Maybe if you'd even be willing to text encouraging things to me sometimes.. I'd be really grateful. Or inspirational quotes. I don't have unlimited texts, but nobody really texts me (the whole friend issue..), so I won't go over my limit.
I'll thank you many times if you can help me, but initially I'll say thanks for reading this, and super thanks for deciding to help me out. :)
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Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl too :)
My life has been extremely difficult. I fell in love with a boy and he got me pregnant, it was not planned. We went out for a year, we brokeup when I was 6 months pregnant. He left me for a freshman girl. I am still heartbroken and that was half a year ago.. I feel depressed still and am so sad about it all. I also just found out today that while I was pregnant he had been cheating on me. I thought he was 'the one' but he turned out to be the average asshole.
I know our problems aren't very similar, but I do have problems too. So if you want to talk, then I wouldn't mind. I'll email you, but I don't check my email often so it might take a few days for a reply.
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