Question Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 6:02 pm
Hi Nina :) I dont think my other message got sent so I said lemme send another one :) Thanks so much for your advice. Im the girl that wrote earlier about the fake profile thing. Just wanted to give you an update and well.. ask for some more advice :P ok first off i didnt hear from you till the day after (btw- no problem I totally understand) so I just wrote him a message off the top of my head. I said no im new to this site.. i just wanted to make some new friends close to where i live. And also said which 'fake name' were you talking about. He wrote a message back giving her last name and also he said where are you from. Ok so then I read your message and did what you said and messaged him back saying no im not the 'fake name' that you know. And i said but you seem like you would have been happy if i was the girl you knew... why are you two close? Then i told him i live in new jersey (and some city in there that i visit often) even though i live in new york because i figured he might put 2 and 2 together :) And to make it seem like i dont know about him- i asked what about you, and how old are you btw. Ok so then he wrote back saying nothing about how he's related to the girl and also lied about his age making it younger :s and wrote that he's on vacation in hawaii right now for a couple of days (i was wondering what happened to him.. see i did good :D ) and that he lives in ny but he visits a restaurant there often (which i also visit when i go there.. weird) and said if you want i can invite you and you can come with your friend. Ok obviously im not gonna show up there. And o.m.g why is he inviting people off the internet that he doesnt even know what they look like- at least he said with your friend but still.. not liking the situaion here. I kindly turned down the offer and said its just that i dont meet people off the internet, dont take it wrong its not you and besides thats why i didnt put a picture either. Something also made me say.. besides people can find somebody very easily off the internet these days. Hi Nina :) Thanks so much for your advice. Im the girl that wrote earlier about the fake profile thing. Just wanted to give you an update and well.. ask for some more advice :p ok first off i didnt hear from you till the day after so i just wrote him a message off the top of my head. I said no im new to this site.. i just wanted to make some new friends close to where i live. And also said which 'fake name' were you talking about. He wrote a message back giving her last name [btw- i looked her up couldnt find nothing :( ] and also he said where are you from. Ok so then i read your message and did what you said and messaged him back saying no im not the 'fake name' that you know. And i said but you seem like you would have been happy if i was the girl you knew... why are you two close? then i told him i live in new jersey (and some city in there that i visit often) even though i live in new york because i figured he might put 2 and 2 together :) and to make it seem like i dont know about him- i asked what about you, and how old are you btw. ok then he wrote back saying nothing about how he's related to the girl and also lied about his age making it younger :s and wrote that he's on vacation in hawaii right now for a couple of days (i was wondering what happened to him.. see i did good :d ) and that he lives in ny but he visits a restaurant there often (which i also visit when i go there.. weird) and said if you want i can invite you and u can come with your friend. o.m.g why is he inviting people off the internet that he doesnt even know what they look like- at least he said with your friend but still.. im not liking the situaion here. Ok obviously im not gonna show up there. I kindly turned down the offer and said its just that i dont meet people off the internet, dont take it wrong its not you and besides thats why i didnt put a picture either. Something also made me say.. besides people can find somebody very easily off the internet these days. Nina please help, what do you think of the situation and what should I do :s p.s. I AM SO SORRY I WROTE SO MUCH :( ~Erica~
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Niinakins answered Wednesday December 30 2009, 10:53 pm: hey erica soooo sorry im taking forever to write you back. umm.. dont worry. he most likely just wants to make a friend and be nice or he probobly didnt have any intention of of meeting "fake name" and her friend either :P he was just being nice as were you. we know he doesnt like "fake name" and thats definately a plus :) :) and he hasnt been talking to you cuz hes in hawaii :) :) also good. my advice would be make a new account and tell him its the real you :D hes abviously a good guy. if he wanted to be a perv he could have invited "fake name" alone and not with her friend... keep me updated girl :) good luck. -nina. [ Niinakins's advice column | Ask Niinakins A Question ]
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