is true..he thought i was never going to find out about his new over..but what i find weird is why he did that?? he loved me so much that he actually did alot of things for me and to keep on going with the relationship..i just dont know what he had on his head when he was in the dominican republic cheeting on me with that other girl..ahh am so confused ;/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? WyzeLizzy answered Sunday December 27 2009, 7:46 pm: Try not to get in their heads and make sense of what or why they do this type of thing. It could be merely because they can. I too felt that my bf was in love with me with the sweet things he did for me, and then to find messages between he and other women just made no sense to me. He said it was because of the attention. They are so driven by their ego's they need so much attention.
If it doesn't make sense, it's okay. If he's lost you because of what he's done, it will be his lesson learned. But he wont stop cheating until he is ready. My ex still has his cheatful ways with his new woman...it's pretty sad. he's going on 40 and just a player. Hate to think he'll die alone...
Anyway...Keep your hopes up and don't dwell on him possibly coming back.
I will say, if you give him a chance to come back and he says he's going to be faithful, then he only gets the one chance. Even God gives people second chances...Draw you're line there.
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