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:( well i actually whent to his house last night at 1am. and it was for nothing . i feel so sad..last night i was just crying and crying because i have had so much bad luck in love..and i noticed that he only wanted to get inside my pants thats why he wanted me to go and specially at 1 in the night...now i regret it and my heart hurts so bad :( because i really did loved him and i still do..its just a heavy pain my heart is carrying!
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It must be early in your love life, because as you mature in relationships, you will be able to determine what a guy is wanting from you when he's all nice and showing you the great things about him and so forth. It takes a long time to really get to know a guy, for his bad and his good, and during this time, you will learn if he is just wanting one thing, or if he's actually considering a dedicated relationship with you.
In the early years, for most guys, they are typically out to score and learn the ropes about sex. It's sad, but I haven't been able to really explore whether they know or not, that most of the women they are after, are looking for love and not just sex.
But surely they have to know the we girls love the attention from a cute, sweet and nice guy. And when we fall, we fall hard, thinking they will catch us and take us under their wing and love us.
The hard truth is that they are not ready for that. You have to know the signs, tho, you know?? Heck, I'd ask them up front, hey, you just want sex, or what?? Well not really, you dont' want to scare the good ones off, you know?
Breaking it down for you, is that you will have to move on from this, and only know it's a mere mistake on your part for falling for the wrong guy, and just know that it's okay. When you found out what the guy really wanted, of course you wish it was easy to just brush it off, knowing that he was just going to use you, and he insulted your intelligence. Bite your lip and know that you have to move forward and know what to look for the next time.
Pain is something we have to experience along the way, and I know from experience, it makes us smarter and stronger. So dont give up on love...it will come...but just be careful along the way.
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