i'm going snowboarding with my ex after christmas because i got stuck working :/
but anyways theres this guy that likes me and he texts me like alll the time, and i text him back cause well i'm a nice person haha..but i don't like him in that way. i told him that i didn't want a relationship for awhile since i just got out of a super long one.
i was just thinking, and please let me know if this is a stupid idea. but i'm sure this guy will text me when we go snowboarding and should i just bring it up casually to my ex and say something like "this guy likes me and texts me all the time and i text him back...do you think thats leading him on?" ...its a legit question that i kinda want to know from a guys perspective anyway..and i think maybe it will get him a little jealous? idk, what do you think?
-hannah
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Darby answered Saturday December 19 2009, 7:28 pm: Eh, I really wouldn't bring it up. It will probably just make him mad or be too obvious because this is the first time you guys are hanging out in a while. If the guy is texting you while you're out with him, and he asks about it, just say something like "oh, it's the guy that texts me all the time". Then see how he reacts to it. If he just says 'oh' and doesn't ask any questions, stop texting the guy that likes you. Just tell him you're busy. It's rude to text a lot when you're hanging out with someone, especially an ex who you're trying to get back with. If he asks more questions about it, you can go into further detail. But I'd just keep that conversation out for now, if I were you.
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