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feel dirty and slutty..
im 17/f. so i've been in a relationship for a year and i just got out of it like a month ago...i went to a college party last night and i started hooking up with this really hott guy but i felt so dirty and slutty so i stopped and told him that i couldn't do this. when i was with my boyfriend i was like a sex maniac haha but i never felt slutty at all because we had that really strong connection you know? i thought being single and meeting guys and hooking up is suppose to be fun? i don't understand. i'm young and i'm suppose to like this....i guess all i want is someone who cares...idk what should i do...
like if thats what college is like then i'm not that excited..i don't just want to be another pointless girl he's hooked up with...i want to mean something.
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It's not strange at all to feel that way, especially if you've only hooked up with people during a relationship. I don't like hooking up with people that I don't know well or don't have a connection with. It makes it feel less meaningful when you are with someone you connect to.
It's actually a good thing that you don't like hooking up randomly. It means that you have respect for yourself. Your mind telling you that it's wrong for you to randomly hook up is your sub conscious way of telling yourself that you know you deserve someone who cares about you and that you're not going to sell yourself for less.
College parties do tend to get like that. But that's not what college is about. College is about getting a degree so you can have a better job so you can have more money to raise a family or whatever you choose to do.
Don't look at it as a bad thing because it most definitely is not. It's refreshing to see that someone cares about theirself enough to know that hooking up with someone you don't know isn't fun at all. It's just awkward and leads to bad, bad situations.
Darby(:
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