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Am I Doing The Right Thing?
So 2 years ago i had this huge crush on guy a year older then me who had a gf and he flirted with me and then 2 weeks later he told me i was acting like his gf and then he left so i was miserable for 2 years after he left pretending to be ok and not telling anyone but know i tel everyone i cant stand him but i still love him and i need him to know that i hate him because i could destroy the only thing that is making him happy (his gf) which i know i could never do.But it rips me apart every time i see them together
plz tell me if im doing the right thing
Thank-you <3
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So what would happen after you "destroy the only thing making him happy"? Would he come running to you with praise and thanks for ruining his love life? Thank you for knowingly taking away the only thing that is making him happy? This man isn't for you. He made his choice years ago. Instead of spending so much time regretting the loss of something you never had, start asking yourself why it is you haven't been able to move on after all these years. Is it because you spend so much time still thinking about him? Are you insecure and feel like you need a boyfriend to feel good about yourself? Whatever the answers are, you need to work on feeling ok about who you are and what you have to offer. You need to work on your confidence in yourself. You can start by getting involved in other things, activities, groups, anywhere to meet other people with similar interests. Once you start realizing what an interesting person you are to others, you'll start attracting the kind of guys who can truly appreciate you for who you are. This guy is not one of those guys. Let it go, start occupying your time and your mind with other things.
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