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not sure how i feel about him
16-f So there's this guy in school and he's liked me since last year and I've always kinda been unsure about my feelings for him. recently he's been flirting a lot with me and he unexpectedly kissed me a couple days ago. he's a good guy and i don't not like him but im not in loveeeee with him so i'm just really unsure what to do. I don't want to lead him on any further since I'm so unsure, but I dont want to end up regretting not doing anything about it. i'm pretty independent and hes kinda clingy which is a big no haha but what if im just scared and am missing out on something good. I'm just also scared that if i decided to go further into this i'll regret that and feel awful later on. I don't want to settle and I think that maybe I should wait for a relationship when I'm really crazy about the guy. What should i do? HELP! pleasee.
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i think you should give him a fair chance. the worst that could happen is you could not like being with him but then you can always break up with him. if you don't give him a chance, months or years later you might realize how good of a guy he is and you'll be wondering what would have happened if you just took that chance, but you'll never be able to go back in time to find out. that should help you decide and if you're still unsure about it or you want to play it safe, tell him exactly what you said in this question about being unsure but you want to try it out just to see how things go before getting attached or anything. in that case he knows whats coming if he decides to go along with it, so no one gets hurt.
oh and just from experience, i was unsure about my boyfriend when we first started dating but after spending time with him and getting to know him i started getting crazy about him and we've been together for over a year, so it is possible for things to work that way.
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