Question Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 3:37 pm
19/female.
can a guy tell if you've been fingered or not before? i suppose by like the way you act, but i mean physically?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? PeasOnMyKnees answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 4:41 pm: No, there's no reason that a guy would be able to tell. There is the possibility that your hymen will break, which can be painful and kind of awkward, but that doesn't necessarily happen the first time you're penetrated by anything. But really, no guy is gonna care about whether or not you have, and no guy cares about a hymen breaking either. In fact, I think it's pretty important to talk about it with your partner in order to make yourself feel more comfortable with the experience. Otherwise, you're just associating sexuality with feelings of guilt and discomfort, and it's just as important for women to be able to enjoy sexual encounters as men. [ PeasOnMyKnees's advice column | Ask PeasOnMyKnees A Question ]
Erubadhron answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 4:19 pm: No....
And if you "are" 19, then a guy shouldn't have a problem with you having been fingered anyways...
Just be yourself and honest with the guy, don't say to him that you've never been fingered or he WILL find out in the end and then the relationship is screwed.... [ Erubadhron's advice column | Ask Erubadhron A Question ]
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