17/f and 16/m
my boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months, and we have only made out and hes felt me up on my but and sometimes my chest.
my questions are:
1. what are some hints he'd give to maybe hint to wanting me to do something sexual [not sex. no waaay. i have morals.]
2. what are some VERY VERY subtle hints I can give to get a little more "hot and heavy" ? haha.
3. if i were to bring like this up with him, i dont really know how to start the conversation. would i say something like, "we've been together for 5 months and i wanted to know how far, in your opinion, you feel you want to go."
i dont know hahaha. i dont want him to think im GOING to do anything, i just want his oppinion and thoughts. I also want to know if i turn him on, but I am NOT willing to just ask it bluntly. its just not me.
4. and how do i know if i turn him on [if he gets a boner] when im with him but i cant tell. like if his pants are baggy. are there other ways i can tell?
TheRandomJuggalette answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 6:07 am: well with the making out think, some people just do it plain and simple. but if you want things to get a little heavier, kind of bring him even closer to you and rub the back of his neck. guys are sensitive on the back of their neck and it usually gives them an erection. ((boner)) This would also help even more if you were sitting on his lap and making out with him. ANd If You Are Pressed Up Against Him, You'll feel if he has a boner or not :] lolz [ TheRandomJuggalette's advice column | Ask TheRandomJuggalette A Question ]
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