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me and my boyfriend have done everything and had sex twice. whenever he fingers me i dont orgasm. sometimes hes too rough but sometimes it feels good yet i still dont orgasm. wen we have sex it just feels like its going into my stomach and it hurts sometimes. the only time ive ever orgasmed is when we dry hump or liike wen i rub against something. why cant i orgasm? and is it weird if i start moaning when i orgasm when we are dry humping with clothes on haha i pretended i didnt have one the 1st time i got 1 because i didnt know if it was weird.
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1-if hes too rough, then tell him to be gentler. you can NEVER enjoy it if youre not comfortable or it hurts. Try masturbating one night, by fingering yourself, not rubbing against something. Try different ways of rubbing yourself and start off slowly then go faster and find what you like best. then when he tries to finger you again, show him how you like it.
2-The first time you have sex, it does hurt, but it shouldnt continue to hurt again. For me, it hurts for like the first like minute then it feels great. So when you have sex, ask him to eat you out or something before, so you can get very wet and relaxed.
3-If you do orgasm when you try hump, dont be afraid to moan and let go of your emotions. Youll enjoy it so much more if you dont hold it back. Its not like you cant orgasm, you just havent figured out what pleases you yet. Experiment with your boyfriend until you BOTH enjoy it. You shouldnt have sex because he wants you too, you should have sex because you love him and you both feel good when doing it. Be safee (: Hope i helped!
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ok first of all how old are you? because you honestly don't seem old enough to be having sex. second fof all as hard as it may be to hear, you may not be able to orgasm from every sexual encounter. most times you need to be relaxed enough for it to happen. but i think that you should mature a bit before you start having sex again because you seem to be lost.
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