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How to start talking again..? (we both pushed eachother away)
So here's the thing, i really liked this kid,we'll call him, oh i don't know- Carl. The first time i saw Carl was this year, in my history class. He looked at me and i got that feeling he thought i was cute(you know that instant connection thing? yeah,well, we had it :P). It was funny because when he had to read aloud, he stumbled over his words XD. Anyways, i got to know him later on through a friend and we became sort of close. He's also in my Math class and moved next to me, then gave me his number.I texted him and he seemed really interested.. until (since i'm a weirdo XD)i started to be myself,pretty much :P.(Yet- he said i was fun to talk to?)I mean, i get the impression that the real reason he stopped talking to me isn't because of me though,he's going through a really tough time right now because his dad's really sick.So he pushed me away.<< That was 3 weeks ago. He's known to be sort of a BIG flirt- but once he gets a girlfriend he really likes them. Anyways, we stopped talking for those three weeks (I tried texting him but he just seemed totally uninterested so i gave up). And now lately i feel that he's been trying to make an effort to talk to me again. For example, today i was up at the front of the line to get out of class, and he basically ran up the whole line-but it was just to flick my back :P!(BUT THATS LIKE OUR RELATIONSHIP! He'll do so much, but then he'll ALWAYS pull away! no matter how small the gesture is!) I always see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye. ****Should i make eye-contact next time?*** How do i start talking to him again? Any other imput on this mess? Why's he acting the way he is?! UGH i have issues :/ thank guys
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First of all never stop being yourself for a guy -the good ones will like you for who you are despite how "out there" you may be. :) Second, even with a silly flick - a guy who takes the time to do something as silly as that - likes you. If he didn't he would have stayed in the back of the line with the others. Guys are like from the age of 14 - 33 and on...It's called the kindergarten way : Annoy a girl to let her know you like her.
Next time he looks over at you - casually look over. Don't dart your head fast in his direction. Give him a little smile and take notice if he turns away fast - if he does...it's pretty clear that he has a little crush on you.
Hope this helps a little. :)
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