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Boy bestfriend and me


Question Posted Sunday October 25 2009, 7:40 pm

My boy bestfriend and I made out . I never thought he saw me that way , he has a girlfriend , and i have a boy im talking to seriously , Ive always been very confused what Ive felt for him , and I think maby he feels the same but im scared to ask if he has feelings for me Should I or just let fate run its course ?

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PhilIvey answered Sunday October 25 2009, 7:40 pm:
Never, EVER be the other woman. Never be the reason someone broke up. There are no exceptions, if a break up is warranted then the guy needs to walk away of his own accord (or get dumped) and if a break up is not warranted you're creating a history of fucking up relationships.

If you want to continue to be friends, be friends. If he asks you about your feelings, be honest. But do not start that conversation yourself except to speak up and tell him that you aren't going to do anything like that again while he has a girlfriend.

If he breaks up with her for you, make him wait month or two before you date him. Tell him thats what you're making him do, that he isn't going to jump out of one relationship and into another, that you want him to break up and stay broken up, that he's got to be sure he wants what he wants and that its not just the passion of the moment.

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