Question Posted Saturday October 24 2009, 12:39 am
So there's this kid who goes to my school who started talking to me...he's not attractive and he's kinda nerdy.I decided to give him a chance and start "talking" to him.
He claimmed he liked me and I just kinda said that i would "maybe" like him back.
He continues to talk to me online for like 4 hours a night and asks me to hangout.Yet when we hangout,he doesn't really seem interested AT All and gives me no attention and then that makes my friends think he doesn't like me.He talks to lots of other girls,who don't like him like that. BUt he claims he definetly talks to me the most.Since he's really nerdy,he hasn't really had much experience with girls .But how am i supposed to know if he likes me? I don't wanna tell him i like him without him telling me first because I don't wanna look desperate because I'm the "better looking and more popular" one between us...
Debbie235 answered Tuesday October 27 2009, 6:49 pm: He proably does like you. Like you said he's kinda nerdy and maybe he's shy. And from my own personal experience, I found that telling a person your true feeling can be quite helpful. He may never tell you that he likes you or he may but it may take quite a while. He proably just needs to cozy towards you more. And if you're anxious to develop more in your friendship than, just go to a quiet place alone and tell him how you feel.What's the wrost that can happen? Either he'll tell you he feel the same way or he won't. But if he's don't feel the same way, you can move on, and find a guy who does like you. Sometimes we tend to waste valued time on those who whould never ever really be worth it... The best of luck to you [ Debbie235's advice column | Ask Debbie235 A Question ]
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