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about my relationship with a 17 years boy
well, i'm little confused, i met this guy 22 days ago, we have met each other well, and we kissed in the first date.. i guess that is wrong cuase we started very fast..
my father doesnt want him.. my mother just tell me that just meet him better, but my father know some things not nice bout him and he doesnt want me to be with him.. i told him to give him a chance, every1 need a chance.. i feel that my boyfriend really wants me and that wht i want.. my parents doesnt know that we talk and date almost everyday..
he smoke marihuana, i hate that.. i dont know the way to come and talk to my dad and explain him thaT jorge's feelings bout me are true and not for wht they think: to have sex.. hes not that way and i want to change my dad thought..
he doesnt even want to meet him seriously.. he told me that he doesnt want him to come to this house..
and my father is not jealous.. i just want that he likes him...
how should i ask him in a nice way to give him a chance??
i am from costa rica but i understand english well
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In a case where your parents have thoughts about not liking your boyfriend without really knowing him, it can be hard to change personal views. Your father has particular information about this boy that he deems unacceptable for his daughter. If you want your father to get to know this person for who he is, you might want to establish a better relationship with your father first. Therefore, try to sit and talk with your dad, simply telling him small things about the way Jorge makes you feel? How he treats you? Things that he has done thus far.
Let your dad get a picture of this guy, that is a true depiction of him that you think so - Show your dad through talking that Jorge is a good person who may have made mistakes in the past but everyone learns. if you really think Jorge is a good person enough to fight for, you should.
Once you show your dad how happy you are around this person, then your dad will follow through (hopefully) and try meeting him. I suggest having Jorge over for dinner or going out to a restaurant for dinner and let it be a very relaxed environment. =)
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