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My best friend loves me
Hey all - Im 17/f
To begin with, i have an amazing best friend. i get along with him so well, we have the same interests and we just generally get along. we have been friends for around 2 years now, but when i first met him he had a huge crush on me. he told me straight away and i said i just wanted to be friends but he kept saying how much he liked me and how beautiful i was etc so we stopped talking because i couldnt deal with it anymore. over half a year later and we are friends again, like best friends, i tell him everything and he tells me everything. i am so comfortable with him. he still says he likes me but he is not saying it and expecting me to say it back, hes cool about it and said hes happy aslong as im in his life. he has told me he loves me a few months ago, and i dont think he does anymore but i know he still likes me. hes such a nice guy and the more time i spend with him the more i like him. i know he would treat me like a princess but i am soooooooo scared that if things dont work out i will lose my friendship with him. i wouldnt be able to live without his friendship, we talk every day! =( what can i do????!! THANKS
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To me it sounds like you should give him a shot. Yes in most cases it is totally stupid to date your bestfriend. It seems like the two of you have a strong friendship and you two stopped being friends because it was akward but were able to set things aside and be friends anyways. To me it seems if dating didn't work the two of you would be able to set that aside. Let him know how you feel. Tell him the more you two talk and hang out you are starting to build feelings for him other than friendship feelings, but you are scared that if things didn't work out you too would lose your friendship. see how he feels.
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