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anti horny?
so me and my girlfriend have been dating 4 months. I like to have sex a lot and she doesnt really I think I have touched her maybe 4 times. She gets horny too but is there something I can take so im not so horny? She got really upset because I said I would just watch porn and masturbate more what do i do?
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You just have to be patient with her. If she isn't really responding to sex, she is not ready yet. You two have only been dating a few months- she seems like she needs to really get to know you and feel totally comfortable before she takes things further. Of course she felt upset when you told her you would just watch porn and masturbate, since she isn't having sex with you. There is nothing wrong with doing that, but she was right to be bothered when you told her - basically, the message she got from it was that you are not being patient with her.
It is okay to bring these things up with her- it is important. But there is a certain way to go about it. You have to be patient and supportive of her choice- and if you cannot possibly wait, then be honest with yourself, and see if she is really the one you want. If she is, you will have to wait. If not, then maybe you need to move on. Only you know the answer.
Do you guys do other things? Make out? If you guys aren't doing ANYTHING, she might have intimacy issues. You should be honest with her (and also very nice), and ask her if there is any reason why she does not physically take things further- communication is the key to any healthy relationship. You are sexually frustrated, and she may or may not have her own personal issues....the only way to clear things up with her is to talk to her.
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