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Okay so last night I had a huge breakdown because this is bothering me an stressing me out. So I texted him last night an said I would appreciate if he would give me a call an he did. I told him how I felt poured my heart out an he listened an said he knew an that he would talk to me tommorow when he got off of work. So he called me today, because his friend has been texting me trying to move in an cause drama telling me he has feelings for me an doesnt deserve me blah blah so I told my boyfriend about it . WELL now he is arguing with his friend an he isn't mad at me he is feeling good that I am faithful an told him of his friends actions. Wel we haven't talked since he said he was gonna call an talk to his friend an stuff because he didnt appreciate him talkin to me like that, which is funny because you want your space but noone can talk to me? And it makes him feel like shit because his friends see what he is doing an tell me its wrong, so he hasn't called yet? I am sure he will but ive been told that he knows what he wants he just thinks living apart is what is best right now, until we can get a place of our own an stop living with room mates an stuff. So, what should I do from here on out, We haven't talked yet, but I believe it needs to be in face an not over a phone , we have been together 4yrs we are past the whole lets work things out over a phone call....
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I think you should be patient this will help you learn something new. I know hes confusing you, i bet hes more than you. If you truly have feeling for him then wait for him...itll be tough bt rememeber you see your self with him for a long time right? and you love him right? and you feel that he sees you as a long time love right? He really loves you right? if you said no to any of those questions or i dont know or maybe then its best just to give him Distance and and let him fade away he might be trying to fade you out. Im sorry to say that theres a huge chance that he might be over you and he still cares for you just not on the same level as a lover just as a bud. But you have the right to be happy and to have someone who will love you and make you happy. Just please dont go and try to make him jealous or get back at him..and his friend i wouldnt go out with him hes not a friend hes just looking out for his own interest if he was a good friend hed try and talk to your guy and advice him on to 1. dont hurt you 2. appreciate you 3. tell him that hes lossing an oportunity that many guys wish they had a girl thatll be this patient 4. not try to hit on his firends girl instead value the friendship more than the girl. Guys and girls come and go but true friendship will always be there when things are good and when things are down. I hope this helps
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