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boyfrienddd.


Question Posted Saturday September 26 2009, 12:11 pm

so i posted another question earlier about my boyfriend and our relationship. and idk what to do.
hes really making me mad that way he is acting
i told him hes acting different and all he said is i dont htink i am. and i asked him if he was gonna call me last night and he said no i dont feel good so im going to sleep. so im like um okk.
and he always texts me goodmorning and i didnt get one today. so i said goodmorning baby and all i got was morning. and he always used to say i love you. but all he does now is says ily (i know it means the same thing but i dont like it that way)
idk what to say to him or anything cuase hes acting so weird.
help meeee !


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Additional info, added Sunday September 27 2009, 8:08 pm:
alsooo. when we were talking yesterday he was like ok well i have a date so i will text you later. ily.
and i was driving so i didnt text him back but i read it and i was just like wtf...
but then he texted me again and was like baby im just kidding. and im like yeah okk. dont ever do that again.
and hes like i wont. i would never do that to my baby
and im like ok then. and then he didnt text me back for a while so im like oh i bet you werent kidding. im sure you really are on a date and hes like no im not i jsut dont feel good but if you dont beleive me then bye.

it just makes me mad becuase if i didnt feel good i would still text him back.
we barely talked this whole week and its bad enough we are so far away from eachother at the moment.



also he didnt text me at all last night cause he was at his uncles wedding and didnt bring his phone with him
and he didnt text me this morning. so i said can you please just talk to me. this is killing me. and he was being nice and stuff and im like i just wish things were how they used to be. and he was like stop worrying so much baby it will be
and like idk what he means by that. because a couple weekends ago he was partying with his friends so we barley talked and hes like dont worry after this everything will be normal agian. and im just like um wow ok. even if youre with your friends our relationship is suppose to be normal. ya know?
i always ask him if he wants to be with me and he gets so mad and he said i tell you this every effing day. and im just like sheesh.
how do i talk to him about this cause he says he didnt do anything wrong and he doesnt know why everythings differnt. but its really his faulyt.
he was at work at 12 so he said he will text me later and its already 7 and he sitll hasnt texted me.
what do i dooo!
.

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Daintree answered Monday September 28 2009, 1:42 am:
Text messaging can be misinterpretated it is blunt & to the point not a romance tool. Language however is romantic when used as a tool to woo.
Young lady I can see where your going but your smothering him, who's chasing who. your doing all the chasing. it's upsetting you both so what do you do about that? One thing a guy hates is a nagging woman in his life. on the other hand The one thing woman don't like is being neglected. Find a way to turn it around. Play him at his own game see if he really cares for you. Because a real relationship is based upon many things working together as a couple. Up there at the top of the list is TRUST.

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California26 answered Sunday September 27 2009, 8:56 pm:
I suggest stop texting and start talking

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