Question Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 5:46 am
I got out of a relationship 10 months ago and found a girl online and we've been dating 8 1/2 months and things are getting serious. She's slept with waaay too many guys for me to be comfortable (21) but I didn't find this out until after I was emotionally attached (3 months in). The chemistry is there between us and I have true feelings for the girl, I just want a higher quality woman for a longer term thing. I'm 22. Should I leave her and be single for a while and take the heart break of a break up, start looking for better girls in church etc. or keep trying to forget about her past, hoping I will be able to let it go?
Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? One_Whisper answered Thursday September 24 2009, 11:25 pm: Do you know this girl in person or just offline? If you only know her offline I would let her go, Relationships lasting off the internet have a low percent rate. Have you seen this girl in person?..How far away does this girl live? Do you see each other having a successful future? If she is in one state and you are in another than to tell you the truth it more than likely will not be successful in the long run. Not only can you not keep track of just how faithful one is but the distant between the two of you will eventually take it's toll in time. I don't know what too tell you about her past only because you did not give any pacific details but if this is strickly an online relationship I'd look eles where. [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
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