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Cant get over my ex
i dated my ex for about one and a half years and we were really tight together. she broke up with me exactly 9 months ago, saying she doesnt love me enough. we have been friends since then and i'm still not over her. we got together for movies, etc as friends and even kissed and cuddled heavily once and she really enjoyed it, (she said she hadnt made out with any guy since we broke up) but still didnt want to make up. i've tried keeping out of touch with her for up to about 2 months, but still not over her, and i was more depressed and less focused on my work while keeping away from her. i dont feel anything for any other girl as much as i tried (even when i had made out with some of them), even when the girls are desperate to have me. my ex even advices i get another girl. my ex is far from good-looking so she just cant get another guy even after trying hard with different guys in the last 9 months (the guys only say they just wanna be ordinary friends with her and this frustrates her), and this makes it harder for me to get over her, knowing she is still single, and probably would be for a really really long time. she's getting even less attractive with age, but I'm still in love with her. i am forced to keep keeping in touch with her as friends because this is the only way i am less depressed. but i'm still not whole, knowing we're not back together. how do i get over her? my life feels like its in permanent runis!
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I know how you feel.theres someone in my life i cant get over losing and is always on my mind it hurts but you just have to be happy that it happened at all.
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you need to get out and party, man.
i mean, there are sooo many other girls out there. go to clubs, a bar, anything.. and meet new people.
also, friends play a really big part in this too. keep yourself occupied, whatever youre doing.
try getting a hobby. something to take your mind off of her. do you enjoy something very much and you havent done it in a while, go do it! =)
ms.
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