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Trying not to
So I really care about this guy but were about 2hours away from eachother for the next 7 months. We were together before I left but we broke it off because we're far apart. We still talk and I know that he's seeing other people which honestly doesnt bother me too much cause I cant expect him to wait for me when I moved away and dont know for sure when Ill be back. But anyways there is this guy where I live now that likes me and I am trying so hard not to like him back, but I ocassionally catch myself flirting and thinking about him. I do not want to like him because I am scared I will lose or forget about the one I love but its hard not to like him.
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Hey there,
Ok i find that I can really relate to this question because ive been there myself and I know how you feel,you feel as if its almost wrong to like him.
but think about it logically you say the guy 2hours is seeing people so whats stopping you?
you can like and see other people it doesnt mean you have to forget the other guy.
But I really think its time you moved on from seeing as anything more then a friend. do your besr not to think of him,if you like this new guy go for it dont let your feelings for the other guy old you back thats stopping you from truely living and enjoying your life. do your absolute best to get over him and think of him as just a freind.
have fun and dont stop yourself from having a good time with this guy,even if its just devoloping a friendship dont feel guilty or like you shouldnt because you absolutely should.
your both in different places right now so you need to leave your relationship as friendship only whos to say later on if things dont work out with who hes seeing or your seeing that you wont end up together you never know.
I hope I helped and made some sense in anyway good luck and much <3
Jess 16/f
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