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A boy just dumped me for another girl. Any suggestions on how to get over him and get attention of other guys?
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Ouchh :[ I'm sorry hun, that's never a good experience, this just happened to my friend.
Boys can be the biggest jerks EVER.
You just gotta hang in there. However, my suggestions for you to get over him would be ...
- delete him from your life. erase his phone number from your cell, remove him as a friend from any social networking site you both have, like facebook or myspace. delete him off of msn or aim or whatever you may have, even e-mail.
... do these things because it is going to drive you NUTS seeing everything him and this new girl are doing. its better to just not see it because then you'll move on quicker.
- listen to a lott of music that describes how you feel, or happy music that will get you pumped to move on and get right back in the "game" haha. It honestly helps. Music is like the medicine that cures EVERYTHING relationship related haha.
- write down how you feel in a notebook of some sort. It helps to get your feelings out on paper, because it kind of takes it out of your head because you'l always know that it's on paper that you can read or go back to whenever you want to.
- vent to your friends. if you don't talk about it with anyone, it's going to just stay inside your head and build up all of the emotions and just burst at the worst time. Even if you think that they don't want to hear about it anymore, keep talking. You'll feel better in the end.
Now, for getting the attention of other guys, you just have to be yourself. Don't go out there advertising your new "single" status haha, that's not the way to go. Just be flirty and outgoing. Always have confidence [because that REALLY gets a guy's attention] and just have fun. even if you're not. fake it. hahaa. because you'll trick your mind into thinking you actually are having the time of your life, and the guys around you will then believe it too.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, im here for yuhh ! it'll get better, i promise :] xxo.
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