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It's BahaiMa22
Thanks Rahzie,
I personally always liked you as a person, I've seen your advice and I thought you were one of the best out there.
What I posted below in the moderator forums was out of anger, I apologize if it offended you. I am leaving this site because I have had a few problems with it not really because of what was posted etc.
I'm sorry but I think after I posted what I did, I'm banned anyway or at least it's a matter of time before someone does. If it is possible could you leave your email for me at Jezzy_Ricardo@yahoo.com I'd still like to remain in contact.
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Bahia,
I think it's important you know that I'm the one who reported you. I hope that knowledge helps you. If you’d noticed my advice, you’ve probably noticed I’m always trying to correct misunderstandings about sexual health. I know we both thinks it's a really important topic.
I’ve copy and pasted the report I made below, for your information.
If you aren't too angry with me now, and would like my advice: Apologize for losing your temper and for calling other advicenators names. If you'd like to stay here, I'd be willing to bet good money that a sincere apology will do the trick.
As I said before, we all make mistakes, sometimes big ones in all caps ;) Sometimes they can’t be avoided. Lord knows I've made mistakes on this site. I've had misunderstandings with other collumnists, including DN once, if memory serves, but by talking things out calmly, and apologizing for the errors I've made, I've had a long happy time here. It’s the way we handle our mistakes that defines us a people, not the fact we never make any! That would make us Gods!
You don’t have to lie down and accept it. Even if you do leave this site, and never come back, you could still choose to apologize for anything wrong you feel you might have done, and leave with your head held high.
This is what I wrote in that report:
I don't feel good at all about doing this because she's a great advicenator, but I think she needs a little nudge to review her medical advice a tiny bit better.
The phrase "They say that someone who is sexually active using condoms and not on any form of birth control there is a 90% chance you will become pregnant within the first year" is just bizzare, and not even close to the worse stats I've ever read. I think she might be confused, because the lastest study out of out Planned Parenthood suggested that the failure rate for *teenagers who only use condoms* was a 10% pregnancy rate...
Couldn't find that study, but here is PP's general answer to the condom effectiveness question:
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* Each year, 2 out of 100 women whose partners use condoms will become pregnant if they always use condoms correctly.
* Each year, 15 out of 100 women whose partners use condoms will become pregnant if they don't always use condoms correctly.
I don't think she meant to imply that the pull out method is more effective then condoms, but I sort of think that's what happened! Her intention is great, but her facts are all over the place...
Whatever happens. Know I wish you the best,
Razhie.
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