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please help me to NOT screw this up
15/f... ok so basically, in just about every relationship i've ever been in, I've been the one to screw it up. I'll either break up with the guy or I'll do something that I know will cause him to break up with me. It's just that, if i'm friends with a guy I can totally be myself around him but the second we start dating, it's really really awkward! I don't know why I keep doing this! And usually, because it becomes so awkward, i'll break off all our dates or something with some lame excuses as to why I can't go and eventually he'll break up with me :( Now, there's this really awesome guy that I think I might have a chance with. I just talked to him on the phone for like 3 hours (Which is a MAJOR thing for me because I NEVER talk on the phone ever because I am TERRIFIED of those awkward silences) and it was so cool because I just talked and we didn't run out of stuff to talk about :) this guy is really cool and we have a lot in common, but I know that the second he asks me out, it will ruin everything :( How do I prevent this? I want him to ask me out, I just don't want everything to be ruined between us :( he's so cool I just don't want to lose him... thank you for reading :)
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Well you might want to give him heads up that you are like that..so he can prepare himself. I mean you sound like you're just scared of getting hurt, I've been there - trust me. But you just have to try your hardest and make things work especially if you care for this guy. But like I said - do tell him as to what you tend to do. He might be able to stick around if he knows what's going on instead of just thinking that you're losing interest.
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