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long distance relationship
Hey i read one of your anwers on a similar situation to mine.. and i was hopin you would give me some advice too. im a senior in high school and my boyfriend of one year is a year ahead of me and went to college about 2 and a half hours away. We thought we would stay together and try to make it work. but meanwhile, theres this other guy who is my age and goes to my school. Hes really cute and sweet and he has liked me ever since freshmen year but the timing has never been right. i really like my boyfriend but at the same time i dont want to spend my senior missing him and feeling tied down. and i dont want him to feel tied down either. I've thought about breaking up with him when he comes home this weekend... but i dont want him to be mad at me and think its for reasons its not. i also dont want to make the wrong decision and realize it when its too late. i dont know what to do or say to him... please help me.
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Obviously, I do not know you, so I have no way of completely knowing what would be right for your situation. That being said, if it was me, I would want to break up with my boyfriend. You're young- you don't need to be in a serious long distance relationship. It would probably be in both of your best interests to break up.
Explain to him that you two are currently moving in different directions. He's just left home and is experiencing new things, while you're starting the process to branch out. You both are busy and need to focus things other than each other. The relationship is just too stressful at this point. He will probably understand. If he doesn't, such is life.
As for the other guy, if things work out that is great. Wait until AFTER you break up with your boyfriend to pursue him though!
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