Debbie235 answered Tuesday August 25 2009, 4:37 pm: Guys loved lap dances trust me. You want look dumb even if you don't know what you're doing... Just be confident in what you're doing... I'm sure you can try to watch a movie or something in it where a female gives a lap dance... or you can pratice yourself with a chair and just imagine that he's sitting in it... And when it's time turn on some nice soft but... seductive music dim the lights and wear something really sexy... yes you can touch him gently and teasily you can give him the dance backwards or front... but make sure it's slow and very seductive... I'm sure theres some singer or attractive that posess some sexiness study them... go on you tube and watch a Beyonce or Brittany spears video watch there movements and pratice it... men love suprizes, if you have a camera phone... put on something sexy and send him sexy photos of you instead of just the usually text message... go on a poetry website site and find some sexy poems... study them and remember them and read them to him... Go an erotica shop and by things like massage oils and other things thats in there... Keep it spicy keep him happy... The best of luck to you... [ Debbie235's advice column | Ask Debbie235 A Question ]
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