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Hi XD, its the "I STILL <3 HIM, IS IT TOO L8" girl...
Well you told me to inbox you if I needed more help and I do. I already told him that I wasn't waiting for him during our convo a few days ago. And believe I meant it. He also told me he was talking to some other girl right now, as in more than friends. It hurt so bad to hear him say that. He's not the type of guy who would appreciate a mix cd with songs pouring my heart out. He's being so complicated right now ugh.
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I HATE WHEN GUYS ARE COMPLICATED. take my boyfriend for example, he has just started becoming the most complicated person ALIVE haha, but I love him nonetheless. It's like, whoever said GIRLS are more complicated than GUYS must have been on drugs when they came up with that, honestly hahaa.
But anyways, then stick your ground. Don't wait around for him, if he's telling you that he has been talking to a girl and they are working on something more than friends, than he doesn't deserve you anyways. Why wait around for someone who is clearly not waiting for you ? I know you love him, and I know that this is going to be SO hard, but you have to try to move on. I know how much it hurts, trust me. It's like ... so lonely and you miss how things used to be, but you can't make people go back to the way they were, no matter how much you want them to or how much you try. People change. Feelings change.
Obviously, he wants to experience new things, and trust me, once he's with this girl, he's gonna wish he never lost you or let you go. But if he's moving on, then you should too. Sure, you can TRY to win him back, but why try to win someone back when they don't want you to TRY to do that. If he's going to be this way, then let him be this way. Tell him you're done, and that you're not going to pine away for him forever, that he'll always have a special place in your heart but you need to find someone that will APPRECIATE you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
I promise, you'll find someone so much less complicated and so much more in love with you, someone who won't leave you for another girl, but only if you try to move on and become friends or start dating other guys. If he sees you've moved on, he'll miss you. He might even want you back. and if that happens, then you can take it from there, but for now, make it clear to him that he can do whatever he wants because you are too.
Ben and jerrys, your best friends, and a comedy movie will help the pain subside for a little while. Just keep yourself busy and your thoughts away from him.
hope i helped and find someone who deserves you since you are obviously such a great person :] ! good luck, and keep me posted ! xxo.
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