I think I'm a little bit unusual when it comes to fooling around.
Question Posted Monday August 10 2009, 9:58 pm
Hi, I'm an 18-year-old female and have been fooling around with a handful of guys (or more, and of course at seperate times) for about a year and a half now. Everytime I get fingered, I feel nothing. I'm just lying there, not getting an orgasm, and not feeling any pleasure whatsoever.
My boyfriend right now loves giving rather than receiving, so I feel bad and just let him go for it everytime. I suppose I don't have the guts to tell him that I don't like it. I would much rather give than receive, and this why; because I don't enjoy it and I probably should be.
I also have the feel that I need to pee everytime someone fingers me. I'm assuming it's me about to squirt, but I would be too embarrassed to do that, so when it gets really bad I pretend I got my orgasm and bring him up to kiss me and pull his hand away.
When I masturbate, which is on a good, weekly basis, I always orgasm. I don't finger myself, I just like to rub. Why can't anybody else make me do that, and why don't I enjoy it?
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