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He stopped texting, does he still like me?
ok, I'm 15, and I met this guy about a month ago when I was drunk and got off with him and got his number, he said he'd text me but didn't for 5 days. but we texted for a bit and he told me he liked me ad I liked him too. so I saw him again the Friday after and didn't drink and we hugged loads and he acted like he liked me but then didn't text for about 2 weeks, when he did we spoke for ages and had a 3 hour phone call and he said he like me and was soo nice and sweet and we arranged to meet up a few days later. we texted for a few more days but then he stopped texting me 2 days before we were going to meet up when we were in the middle of texting. he's on contract so isn't out of credit and had plently of chances to msn me. he recently broke up ( was dumped) with his ex and was pretty depressed about that. I'm so confused, does he like me?
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Just to warn you, I'm not yelling at you only, but all those out there on Advicenators who think that JUST because a guy doesn't text you first, it means he can't POSSIBLY like you.
I don't know what it is that makes people think this. Seriously, sometimes we guys don't feel like starting a conversation because we're not always into talking. Sometimes we are. It really just depends.
And something as little as texting, come on, texting, for goodness sake, shouldn't dictate whether a guy likes you or not. The fact that he talks to you should be good enough, you know?
Since I see texting as the lowest form of communication, other than telegrams and letters, I don't see it as a big deal that he doesn't text you first. Maybe he's just busy and doesn't regularly think: Oh dear, maybe I should text this girl or she might think I'm a jerk.
Guys don't think like that.
So aside from my rant, which has meaning, I think that you should only take offense if he doesn't start the conversation first, if the conversation is IN PERSON, not through text. Like if you clearly make eye contact and he doesn't at least say hello or some type of small-talk, then I would say he doesn't like you as any more than a friend.
--Jack
(17/m)
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