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15 yr old guy and im gay and i really have strong feelings for a guy hes also 15 weve spent a lot of time together over the last few months and i think he likes me im a bit nervous to tell him how i feel im not real sure if hes gay im a bit worried about getting rejected if i tell him my feelings im unsure what to do how do i find out if hes gay? do i just tell him i like him what do i do?
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Hey there, =)
okay this is a tough enough situation and I understand your fear of rejection completely,and everyone has to put themselves out there and face it once and a while but this differs slightly with the different sexualitys.
Okay well heres what I think you you should do,theres two options really,
Option 1. is to be brave enough to come right out and say it,admit your feelings and your sexuality and who know he might very well feel the same way?,even if he doesnt if hes a true friend he will accept it,tell you in a nice way that he doesnt feel the same but would gladly be your friend,sure things will be a bit awkward but that always goes away after a little while i promise been there on both sides. if he reacts badly and doesnt want anything to do with you because you gay and hes not or anything along those lines then bottom line hes a jerk,who needs to grow up and isnt worth it. but I doubt very much that will happen.
Option 2,if your not quite ready to admit openly your feelings then id monitor his reactions towards you for another little while,look closey to see if hes just being friendly or is it flirting and what not read the signs carefully maybe find out if hes had any ex's that way you might be able to determine whether hes gay or not you know that type of thing.
bare in mind also that if you tell him you like him and he reacts badly at first its because your both still really young and he might be confused about his feelings also. like i said this hopefuly wont happen but if it does give him time to come around =)
Really hope it all works out and that i helped in some way!
any more questions please ask
much <3
Jess
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