Im friends with this guy and i have a huge crush on him.
ok, heres how it started... a couple months ago, me, my friend/crush, and alison were playing truth or dare... and she dared him to kiss me, he kissed me, then she dared me to kiss him so i kissed...then he kissed me and we just kept going back and forth and we had a total make out sesion. i had to go. and when i left he told alison that he had so many more feelings for me now that we made out. i don't know if i should ask him out or what?? i can never get him out of my head.
Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
wowwxoxox answered Wednesday August 5 2009, 12:03 am: well i had something like that happen to me. If you cant get him out of your mind.. then you must really like him.. and if he has feelings for you to then i would definetly give it a try. BUT. wait for him, playing hard to get is always a good way of having a guy as YOU out.
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