Your advice helped me :) but I have one more question!
Question Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 7:02 pm
Okay soo what you told me to do was so helpful with the guy I like. So last night, I logged on to myspace and updated my status to "bored" and then a little while later when I logged back on to it..it said I had a message so I looked and it said "whats your aim?" from him. So, of course, I answered him back. He wasn't on though when I answered so by 2 am I just logged off aim and went to bed. I woke up with a message from him. He said thanks (for my aim) and then he gave me his without me asking for it. I answered back and he said he'll "hit me up". So, we talked for about a half an hour on aim, we were having a good conversation and everything.. and then he randomly stopped answering. Through a message I asked why he left and he replied that he was sorry but he was doing something and he got logged out (he was on his sidekick and i was on aim mobile). So, I was like "it's okay..I can't IM you because im mobile and it only lets me recieve IM's. You can IM me if you want" and he said "ohh that sucks ha" so I got the hint he didn't want to talk I guess? haha I don't know. I then told him I had to go and I told him to have fun at work. He replied and said "Alright. I will. Hopefully.. ttyl." Anyway..is it good he initiated talking this time? and, I know this sounds stupid but..is it bad that he didn't want to talk again even though he's the one that left in the first place? Please help :) Thankyou!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xosodapopx3 answered Sunday August 2 2009, 8:03 pm: Im glad my first advice was helpful :-) .
Thats so good that you guys just started talking, progress is most definately being made. Boys are mysterious sometimes, I wouldnt take it to heart if he signs off or doesnt feel like chatting at that moment, and he definately is going to talk to you again considering he wrote ttyl. Its great that he started the conversation, and wanting your aim screen name is a huge plus too!
Its good that you handled the IM situation in a smooth/calm kind of way (if that makes sense,) guys like to know that you can be chill in various situations, and not be over controlling or get mad at them all the time over "little" things.
Congrats on the progress!!!
Just wondering, is there any way your friends could find out if he has feelings for you through his friends in a descrete sort of way? [ xosodapopx3's advice column | Ask xosodapopx3 A Question ]
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