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Hitler, I am amazed that someone actually read and responded to my worries, thankyou for your response. This afternoon, I felt much better when I wrote all this. And wow!!! if you are hunting for Talibans you must be somewhere near my neighborhood, are you located in pakistan or Afghanistan??
Ok so well I cannot leave the job for sure out of question, we work in non profit world, lots os social action programs cross paths, even if I leave job I cannot avoid running on him. And really i do not want to do that. I know I and will be cheating on my family and he as well, but why is this such a big issue, who knows after a while I will get over. Right now it feels hell, just the idea of a world without him .
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I was there last year, if you know where Paktika province is. heading back soon. so whats your desired outcome with this relationship? In all honesty, you're jeopardizing your marriage....if its worth it to you to try pulling something off out of this, then by all means. two ways this can go that might be successful: have an open relationship with your husband so he can pick up random chicks at the bar, and divorce. both are kinda messed up, but they're on the table. then again, thats social norms poking its head into it...
eh, thats one of the reasons why I've stayed single the past four years, that, and I'm not going to make a war widow out of anyone.
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