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breakup with my love or not, fighting daily
i have a boyfriend of 11 months i love him so much but we fight nonstop. some friends ask how i put up with it n my only reason is that i love him. i really dont ever wana loose him but im starting to question a breakup what should i do, if we did breakup itd hurt us both so much but the fightings bringing me back to insanity and i start hallucinating again. but we also have alot of magical moments where we are on top of the world n i cant imagine anything better and were so deep in love were talking about when we have kids and our future. i love him so much but i cant handle the fighting anymore, what shud i do?
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if your fighting alot than you shold break up find someone better
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If you can't handle the fighting, try talking to him about it and finding a way to solve it, because it doesn't sound like you've really searched for a solution.
If you two can't find a solution, then, well, I guess you should end it. Relationships are based on a few things: healthy communication, trust, and love. You aren't having healthy communication, and so eventually the other parts of the good relationship are going to fade with the fighting; for instance, the more you fight, the less you'll love him and the less you'll trust him.
Sure, there's no way for any relationship to come without fighting, because no two people agree on EVERYTHING, but if you are fighting EVERY day and it's nonstop, then it's time to end the relationship and find someone with whom you'll be more happy.
--Jack
(17/m)
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