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emotionally bothered.


Question Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 9:51 pm

I dont know what is going on with my mom's boyfriend's mind. But seriously the problem he is giving me is causing me to be so angry that one time I was so hurt that I felt so shocked like my fingers were dead. I have told others here about my problem but I don't find it helpfull cause I think what he does is beyond just being a jerk. He looks at me inappropriately more that 1 time. I can see his eyes looking all happy cause he is looking at my body this totally angers me casue 1 I don't like him and 2 he is dating my mom why. Then its like he feels that I really dont like being around him so when we go somewhere he always has to open the door for me which I do not like. But when its here at our apartment its like he slams the door at me. It pisses me off to know that a man his age 33 can not act right. That I have to tell someone about it. I dont even have the nerves to tell this things to my mom. Cause I feel like what he does is close to sexual abuse. Everytime he is around I feel so fucking angry. Is he doing this all in purpose to make me leave? And recently I feel like he made me look like the bad guy that I say bad things behind peoples back. He know that those kinds of things pisses of my mom too. And I can not say anything that's not loud enough in front of my family without them thinking I must be saying something they don't like. So they sound mad back at me.

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thequotablepatella answered Thursday July 23 2009, 11:15 pm:
If you're even considering his behavior towards you to be sexual abuse then it's time to talk to your mom about it. I'm going to assume that you've done a fair amount of complaining to your mom about her boyfriend on other fronts and have not seen any changes in his behavior. That's unfortunate, but I guarantee you that she will listen to you if you tell her about how uncomfortable he makes you feel.

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