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Okay hello, im melinda & i've been having boyfriend problems & i dont know what to do.! But when i found out that a guy i really* liked & we dated for 8 months , he cheated.... & i dont know excatly why. all my friends ever say is dont worry just get over him & i do but its just i still ,love him a little what should i do?
Sincerly
Out of her mind .
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That's hard, and your friends aren't going to understand that you still love a cheater. I've been there, and I know that it's a crappy place to be.
Here's the thing: this isn't clean cut, black and white. It's pretty grey, actually. If this guy you love cheated on you, everyone is going to say drop him and move on, and that's a decent piece of advice if you feel that he'd do it again and isn't sorry. The thing is that sometimes they can turn around. Sometimes you can repair the relationship.
If you still love him, think about if he loves you back. If he does and you're willing to forgive, then you can try it.
If you think he's bat sh!t crazy and you're mad and hurt and think that he's going to do it again, focus on that fact and let him go.
Love is a tricky thing. You have to kinda of bend it to make it work, so long as you don't bend so much it breaks (or you do).
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