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Asking her out
So me and this girl have been talking a lot lately, like everyday for hours, so we're way into the friend zone. And of course I really like her a lot! I'm going to ask her out when she comes back to school, which is like 45 minutes from where I live. Anyway, my question is, do I ask her to go out with me, or do I ask her to be my girlfriend? The distance thing makes me want to ask her to be my girlfriend, plus the fact that it's not like I need to ask her out to get to know her for the first time, I already know a lot about her. But asking to be my girlfriend is a little higher up on the commitment line rather than just asking her out on a date.
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I think you should ask her out on a date first. It's sort of the natural progression of things, even if she does like 45 minutes from you. Ask her out to dinner and a movie or something else that she's interested. After you go on a date with her, you'll probably talk about it later and figure out if you want to change your status to boyfriend and girlfriend. Usually you hang out with a girl before you are her boyfriend, even if you guys do know each other well. You don't want to put her in the position of having to say yes to being your girlfriend before you guys really go out on a couple dates. I know I would rather a guy take me out first so I could see how I enjoy actually being with him. You could even ask her to be your girlfriend at the end of the date, if things are going well.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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