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leaving husband
I have told him he is free to go i am not holding him back and i have tried to leave before and he apologizes to me tells me not to go that he loves me and that if it wasnt for me he would be lost and that i am his gold and i have told him that if i was that precious he would not treat me the way he does. I have also told him that instead of treating me like sh**t for him just to be a man and tell me he does not want me around anymore and he always tells me if he wanted to leave me he would have done so a long time ago and he would not have married me. so what do think should i leave him now or should i wait until our next argument?
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I'm assuming another argument has been had since then, or is at least close to happening. If not, he's just recessing his behaviors until he feels safe again to treat you like shit. True, I have a pessimistic point of view, but judging by the history of this relationship, I think I'm likely correct.
I still stand by my earlier decision and try a separation. Stay away and break contact. Don't even check on him through friends; that will get to him and he'll know you're still watching. If he finds himself completely isolated from you, and realizes that you are serious, that's when his true colors will show.
Him telling you that he would have not married you or left you in the past is bullshit. I said the exact same things myself. It falls into a simple category: things I can say to her that sound logical but are complete lies.
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