Oh my gosh, theres this guy that likes me, we have a lot in common, but he comes on to strong, isnt very cute, and he just wont leave me alone! How do I tell him I dont want to talk or see him anymore without totally crushing him and making myself feel bad for doing it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Friday June 26 2009, 9:32 pm: Hey there,
this might not be what you want to hear but you say youve got alot in common,are you sure you cant overlook the fact that hes not that cute,and maybe try to get to know him more just ask him to stop coming on too strong? even just as a friend at least
Just explain to him how you dont like him in that way and you would prefer to just be his friend that way he will hopefully take the hint and be too ego-bruised to maybe even talk to you that way your sparing his feelings in a nice way and not doing it in a nasty way to make yourself feel bad.
if he is someone you really really can't stand
who is very annoying and just not nice to be around just tell him nicely you would prefer not to talk to him. I dont think this seems to be the case though so just ease him down gently and he should take the hint and back off a bit and give you space.
good luck =]
hope I helped,
Much <3
Jess [15/f] [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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