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suicidal boyfriend please help
16/f
so im really worried because i know hes serious and i cant lose the only guy ive ever loved. weve been dating for a year. he hates living with his dad becuase his dad has beat him since he was little and its given him horrible depression and he hears voices that tell him to kill himself and he's stopped eating and lost a bunch of weight and his grades have dropped and he's started smoking pot everyday to get away from it all and i can tell he is so sad inside. he acts like the class clown and plays sports so you would never know that something was wrong but around me he doesnt try to put on a show and thats when i can tell that something is really wrong. at the begining of summer his mom told him he could move to texas with her. he was really happy because he loves his mom and only gets to see her once a year. then she told him he couldnt live with her. he started saying that no one wants him and that his own mom lied to him and he was just so upset. he knows i love him and he said the only thing keeping him going is me and my problems. he called me the other night saying he had overdosed on pills and he was being ridiculous saying he wanted to test his bodys limits like stevo and he was bein really rude to me saying stop freakin out mom im fine drama queen. but i stayed on the phone anyway because i knew he was just upset. but last night he said he was getting out of here and i said well ok but dont kill yourself and he said its a possibility. and i know that he will go through with it because he's put bags over his head beofre and overdosed and other stuff. he told me he had a dream that he jumped off a building and felt complete peace then bam end of dream. i think hes really serious and is ready to die and im so scared. he doesnt listen to me and i need to get through to him. please help me its making me want to kill myself too
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Call this number right away - 1-800-273-TALK (8255)- or visit www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
You'll be able to talk to people with experience in these situations. They can give you advice or guide you to places that may be able to help. Your boyfriend is in a lot of pain. He needs professional help. The fact that he is telling you his thoughts of suicide is his way of reaching out for help. You are not equipped to deal with this alone. Call the number. Get help for yourself and for him, its the best gift you can give someone you love.
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