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His piece?!?


Question Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 7:13 pm

Ok this guy josh talks to me all the time about how much he cares about me and wants to be with me, but he talks to so many other girls too. We fight so much oh my god its ridiculous and when ever we fight he says he's gonna mess around with other girls. Ive been going through this for over a year now we've never actually dated but its like were a married couple! oh and my biggest problem with him is when were together im his baby r his girl but in front of people all he ever calls me is his "piece". I told him how muc hit bugs me and he said it's no big deal. god he sucks, thats why I've been opening my options lately with this one other guy BUT its so hard because josh has been a very important part of my life for so long and I dont want to loose him but i dont know if I can deal with his bull shit any more....so what should I do?

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JustJessOx answered Thursday June 25 2009, 8:25 pm:
Hey there,
okay i know this might not be what you want to hear but this guy seems like hes just happy to have you around exactly what he says his "piece"
to treat however he likes depending on his mood.
I know with guys like this who seem to just have some sort of hold over you where you feel like you can't possibly let go or ever break away and stop feeling that way and giving them the satisfaction of knowing your always around as a fall back,and its like all the time hes being sweet you forget about the other times..
hes obvlious to how being called that makes you feel.
trust me,I have a guy just like josh who annoyingly keeps making me fall for him even when he asks like a jerk..but
he only cares about whats convieniant to him,you deserve alot better,think about it carefully you said it your self you dont know if you can deal with his bull shit anymore?theres your answer simply dont.
trust your gut instinct,tell him out straight your sick of it and if he doesnt stop well hes gonna loose you,see how reacts to that and if you really dont want to give up on him see if hes capable of changing give him the one more chance if you feel you have to and if things stay the same move on its hard but it can be done =)
I hope I made sense and helped In anyway,and that I was able to relate in someway,sorry If i havnt, but thats the best advice I can give you from my point of view
good luck
much <3
Jess [15/f]

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