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Question Posted Thursday June 25 2009, 6:35 pm

The first thing I am going to focus on will be to get a lawyer and protect myself. I will make sure I dot all my i’s and cross all my t’s, so nothing can ever come back and bite me in the ass. I will keep myself out of harm’s way. Now the second thing I am going to look at, is making some changes in my lifestyle. I am going to refinance my house and car, and try and save some money there, because it will be very important to me to keep my house. I will cut back on a few other things, and I might have to live tight for a while, but I won’t give her the satisfaction of ruining my life. She will be throwing her money down the drain while she is paying rent in “her” apartment. If I have to get a roommate for a while, then I might have to sacrifice my privacy. Oh well. If I can hold on to this house, it will be very huge for my future. I am still young and I own a home. I mean not a lot of people can say that at my age, and it is something that I am very proud of. Plus when Mrs. Right does come along, she will look at me and see that I have my head on straight, and I’m not just some lowlife. I have very good credit so hopefully I can get a good interest rate. But I will just have to wait and see. As for her, she has definitely already started a new life. And I know she is probably living on top of the world right now. Loving life, and counting the days until “Mr. Perfect” comes home. Oh well, I feel that the best revenge is for me to live well. So that when she sees that I am still living in the house that we bought together, and sharing it with whatever woman I end up with, it’s going to tear her up inside. The only real thing that I am very worried about is who she brings around my daughter. There are a lot of scary things out there. Abusers and molesters, and that worries me sick. Now I know my wife would never knowingly put my daughter in danger, but you never really know someone until it’s too late. Well thanks for the chat, and as always thanks for being a friend and giving someone to lean on. Talk to ya soon.

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foxylady answered Friday June 26 2009, 9:28 am:
No problem, you seem to know what you are doing, guess you don't need me anymore, haha. I feel ya and I agree whole heartly with everything you are saying. You say that you would like to keep the house, but would you want to bring another woman into the same house that you shared with your wife, wouldn't that bring back a wqhole lot of memories? And it's ok if you have to live tight and make some sacrifices for a while, that is what life is all about. You gatta give a little to get alot. And also, I don't know how your laws are over there, but during a divorce setlement, wouldn't you have to sell the house and split the profits? Or sometimes the courts will rule in favour of one person keeping the home and continuing with the payments. Well anyway, you do what you have to do and keep me updated. By the way are you Michael?

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